This is off topic, but can somebody please help me?

Consider her more closely. If you really do understand her being skeptical then it has to be totally acceptable to have a limited relationship with her right now. What does she need? Think about it. She needs to be given a free and open choice to be in whatever kind of relationship she wants or doesn't want with you. She does not need to put her thoughts aside just to accommodate you. She should not be encouraged to put her own desires and emotions in the background. She should be treated like the Queen in that whatever she says about your relationship and how she wants to be is how it's gonna be.